“How to get out of a love triangle?”

I have become a member of the classic love triangle: for more than two years I have been the one with whom. A man has a wife and two children. I also really want a child, but not in such a situation. I understand that this relationship needs to be broken and what is the next, the more difficult it will be to do it. But I can’t, although the situation burd me very much. “Clin” is not about me, I need to finally part in order to further build my life. What can you recommend?

Nowadays, a love story often develops like this: people get married, start children. Rutins and everyday life are becoming more and more, romance – less and less. It is difficult to lead a joint life and continue to burn with passion to each other, but you want bright feelings. So one of the partners starts a novel on the side. They are driven by a thirst for freedom and bright experiences. Partner behind the borders of the marriage union, impressed by a love stream poured on him, responds.

At first, the sweetness of the forbidden fruit enhances the acuteness of sensations. But for a long time to be at the peak of emotions, without looking into the future, it is difficult. The need for stability, balancing the unpredictability of a romantic adventure, makes people think about how to combine their lives. Here the torment begins.

Moral and ethical problems, guilt before children, unwillingness to be in the role of a family destroyer, humiliation due to the inability to make a choice, humiliation, that you are not chosen … The experiences are

painful, the lack of a suitable option oppresses everyone. The ease and inspiration from which it all began, leave the relationship.

What can you do here? How to prevent disappointment and hopelessness to erase the beautiful that was between you? Someone chooses parting in order to preserve the good in their memories. Someone decides to continue relations by limiting the holiday with one day or an hour spent with each other.